Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Arrogance and Foolishness

ar⋅ro⋅gance 
–noun
offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride.
fool·ish
-adj.
Lacking or exhibiting a lack of good sense or judgment; silly: foolish remarks.
Resulting from stupidity or misinformation; unwise.
People interfere with their opinions in tough situations too much. I mean when you come to them with a problem, they help you resolve it, but by ending either a friendship or relationship, I mean come on now. That's really fucking arrogant, and foolish.
It's not the end of the world, everyone between friends and boyfriends/girlfriends. There are going to be conflicts, many of which can become catastrophic, and why they are, is because they aren't thought thoroughly enough. Especially if you only know your side of the story and go running with it, and ofcoarse they're going to agree, some will tell you if you're wrong, depends on the person though.
When you have something going, maybe for a while, and to end it of something silly and arrogantly, it really shows that some people are still immature and don't want to believe it.
Don't get me wrong, I have tendancies to be immature at times, though I'm working on growing my knowledge and learning how to handle things correctly. If your friends really say to end something over something so silly, maybe you need to get advice elsewhere, because when I go to some of my friends when I have a problem with a friend, but they don't say, oh go tell them to fuck off, they try to help me see the other person's side of the story and I tell them how I'm feeling and I get a lot out, and you know what, I feel so much better and silly for getting all worked up for something so silly and lame.
Ladies and Gentlmen, today I've finally discovered where arrogance and foolishness get you, ABSOLUTELY NO WHERE. So I think a few times before I confront the person about something so I know my story is straight.
Apparently I've had a shit day, but there you go, something to leave you thinking about and understanding another person's side of the story.
xo

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